Graciousness

Graciousness-Definition:, Given freely; unearned; Not called for by the circumstances; uncalled for; without reason, cause, or proof; adopted or asserted without any good ground; unjustified, marked by kindness and courtesy

Welcome back my minions:) I have been gone as you can see. I have been busy and as you can tell blogging has not been one of my top priorities. A lot has happened in the past few weeks. I went to California again for another wedding and we had a blast. It was for my brother’s friend. I thoroughly enjoyed it because I was reunited with all of his friends and all of my childhood role models. I felt right at home and I felt soo lucky to have the opportunity to hang out with my brother and all of his friends before we all go our separate ways. Later in the month I carved pumpkins with my brother and his girl friend and that was another reassurance to me that I am loved. I don't want to ever get in my brothers ways so I usually try to stay back and give them lots of space so the few times I do get to spent time with them I cherish them. Youth group has also been a big commitment as well because I am working with both Middle Schoolers and High Schoolers three nights a week as well as nannying. The first Quarter of my junior year of high school is now over with and I am quite happy with my grades. I am now starting to look at colleges and starting my senior project. Last week I was overcome with gratefulness when my brother presented a new car to me. He said that it was a reward for all of my hard work. I don't ever know how to say thank you to him because this is not the first time he has done something this kind for me. In August of 2009 he and my other brother gave me my first car!

Last week my old visual communications teacher offered me to go on a trip to California in January. I would have loves to go but financially I did not think that I would be able to attend. I am saving for college and I just don't have the funds. But, last night my brother called my mom and dad and he offered to pay for me to go! I at first said no... this was only because I feel that he has done sooooo much for me already that I could not accept anything else from him. I feel that I can't pay him back and I have troubles accepting gifts. Now, take a moment to look at the definition above. Graciousness... I have so many problems with accepting things graciously. So I turned to God and for 3 verses about graciousness that I found applicable to this situation. "A gracious woman gains respect,” Proverbs 11:16 "Let your conversations be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.” Colossians 4:6 These two verses I feel reflect upon me and what I need to do and be but I feel that this next verse reflects upon Aaron, my brother, "Since you excel in many ways- in your faith, your gifted speakers, your knowledge, your enthusiasm, and your love from us-I want you to excel also in this gracious act of giving." 2 Corinthians 8:7. I realized after reading these that I need to accept these amazing gifts and use them to spread other gracious acts upon others just as Christ would:) So that is what I will do!

Love peace and Happiness!
-Alli Rose